Monthly Archives: November 2013

What´s in a name?

LemoThis is Cara [de] Viejo… “Old Man Face.” After spending 9 days in Platanares and spending time with Cara Viejo every day, I´m ashamed to say that I don´t know his real name. Nicknames are the norm here in Panama, and I´m still struggling with the cultural etiquette surrounding this phenomenon. Often, I´ve asked someone in a small community such as Platanares the name of another person in that community. And often, they have a hard time responding… what name should they give? Names seem to carry a different value here. But I believe names are important. I believe this based on what I read in scripture, where names carry tremendous weight from Genesis to Revelation. “Isaac reopened the wells… and he gave them the same names his father had given them” Gn 26:18  and  “… but only those whose names are written…”  Rev 21:27. Also because I much prefer to be called “Alan” or “The Beard” or “White Indian” as opposed to “gringo,” which is not a name but rather a label.

So one evening in Platanares we had a lively discussion about names and nicknames. We learned that Hermes, our host, learned what his name was when he went to graduate from 6th grade, until which time he believed his name was Hermito. His brother, Lochi, knew his given name and went to great lengths to avoid its use. His given name was Rosi, a name as feminine here as there. The story sounded like a rewrite of Johnny Cash´s “A Boy Named Sue.” And, of course, we were all in stitches as Cara Viejo´s mother shared the detailed history behind his other nickname: “Mama teta de Rosa”… “Suckles the teet of [the dog named] Rose.”

It bothers me when a familiar face greets me and I can´t call the individual´s name. Unfortunately, it seems almost impossible for me to remember all the names of the people we encounter in the many communities we visit. So we try to use tools and methods to learn names and remember them as we go… And we hope to recognize when and where the Lord would have us invest more time to deepen our relationships with individuals (and of course learn their names) as we go about the work ahead.

May God Bless [you] in all you do,

los Fosters

ps We just got back from another trip to Platanares. Old Man Face´s name is Lemo… pronounced Lame-O. Some folks just don´t get a break I guess.

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Tip of the slung

We thank God for gentle reminders when we mess up… because harsh reminders stink. I´m very proud of Colleen for the progress she is making in language and culture, and I´m realizing that I have a long way to go. I thought that I´d pretty much got the handle on Spanish and could focus on Emberá bedea and Woun meu, the languages in the two indigenous groups we work with primarily. And there´s much truth to that, however, culture hoppers must always be wary and careful… and remember that we will never fully understand the other culture, much less express ourselves flawlessly in it. A recent reminder follows:

In English we can speak of “with the spiritual gifts…” or we might say “with spiritual gifts…” At least in my English anyways.

In Spanish, however, if you leave out the “the”, it changes from “with the spiritual gifts…” to “spiritual condoms…”

donkey tongueFortunately for me, it was just Pastor Einer and I… and he is very forgiving. But what if I had been in front of a congregation of indigenous for whom Spanish is a second language. I would have breezed right through without knowing. None of them would have ever said anything. And the few that heard me clearly might be struggling to assimilate this new teaching… or at best trying to decipher my strange metaphors. Maybe I´ve already been saying weird stuff.

Cake tare of tour younge,

alan

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Where did the time go?

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kids help Pastor Ermes bring soil to the planter

We traveled to the community of Platanares for 9 days to work on finishing their water filter and help with children´s ministry. Alan trained people in water testing, and we stayed very busy with puppets, movies, music, art, and worship each afternoon and evening. Pastor Einer guided the construction of some raised planting beds made of bamboo and taught discipleship classes each morning as well as helping with the water filter. Alan got to be part of a “boat dragging” where a freshly hued canoe was dragged from the mountains to the river.

Isaiah master the pipette

Isaiah masters the pipette

 

The time spent with the children was priceless. Even when there are no “programs” scheduled, the children come to the house where we are staying. This time spent playing games and talking is my favorite part. I have been reading through a book on becoming “emotionally whole.” This time for me personally was an awesome learning experience. My personal preferences for private time were pressed to the limit with having the children over all the time, and not having anywhere to go to have a few minutes of privacy. It´s okay to set personal boundaries, but it´s all in the way you handle yourself emotionally, verbally. I reflected on this hours later as I thought about my tone as I told some kids I needed time to rest. I didn´t feel good about myself and how I handled the situation. I thought about how I could have told them in a more loving tone; this is a recurring problem of mine; I wait to express myself right as I´ve “had enough” and my attitude seems out of control!

Javier

Javier studies about Noah

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one of our favorite forms of “church”

The next afternoon I was reading my book on emotional health and was enjoying the silence of the house, when Javier showed up. Normally, I would have taken an unloving tone and told him this was my time, and I would have continued to read. …I finished reading a sentence in my book and marked it. I put the book down. Javier looked at me beaming. Just before he showed up I was reflecting on the fact that  all of the children that show up to the pastor´s house where we stay also show up to church, and most have parents that don´t participate in the church. They show up to the house because they are curious, because they want my time, because they want my attention, and my love. So as Javier showed up, I thanked God that he sent me a blessing in the form of a child named Javier to smile at me, and remind me that all I need to do is love this child with the time here that God graces me with….it´s not “my” time! It´s Gods time! I am thankful for this lesson and have been mindful to be loving with my tone when I do need time to myself.

Coming up:

We will be traveling back to Platanares on the 14th of November with Jamie and Murray from Mb mission. They will be facilitating dialogue on Asset Based Community Development, a mindset that empowers -rather than subjugates-  our partner churches in Panama.

Praise Report/Prayer Requests:

Praise God for all the little children of the world!

Praise God for the close relationship that our team is forming and the vision He is giving for His work in Panama!

Pray that God would help me have peace with my health (There are no tick borne illnesses in Panama! I am currently being treated for a pinched nerve)

Pray that our growing relationship with Engineers Without Borders would be a blessing to many people.

Pray for the Einer and Girlesa as they deal with sickness and death in their family.

Here´s a short video of dragging a newly made boat off the mountain and into the river:

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